|Posted by [email protected] on September 20, 2014 at 5:45 AM|
Have you ever wondered why there are so bitter, unhappy and stressed people? The answer is very simple, you do not do what you like or you are not with the people who you love. Everyone has fallen into this trap and the only way to get out is to change your way of thinking. I am sure that what I am writing might sound trivial, frivolous or unrealistic, but the truth is that it is completely achievable and all you have to do is to isolate the social undermining and begin to build your life according to your skills, perceptions and needs.
The world has developed rules that should be kept and most people without a purpose in life follow others without considering whether these rules are correct and if they are, whether they are respected. If you value yourself and your life, you should not follow all of them and build your own world that makes you proud of yourself and wakes you up with a smile which is a result of your achievements and eager to see what's next.
For most people, life has the following schedule: school, university, marriage, children and all these at certain ages, and if everything goes according to the plan it would be perfect, but it happens only when you are in the right place with the right people. In your efforts to be liked by everyone else and to cover all the requirements in time, you can be lost and one day to wake up with a smile faded, lost dreams and tracking foreign successes. So at any monent in your lives, you have to ask whether this is what you are looking for and that will not make you regret it.
Do you like to get up early? Do you drink your coffee with pleasure while viewing your favorite topics and smiling at the rising sun? Do you go with pleasure at the office? If so, you are definitely happy and should continue in this direction, but if the thought of this work, colleagues or any other activities associated with this job exhausts you mentally, it's time to think about what you actually do. We live in a dynamic time, offering countless opportunities and what stops most people is the fear of change.
Make up your mind, consider yourself where, when and how you feel comfortable and act. By nature, people are selfish and no one will choose to build your happiness instead of his/her own!